Friday, July 29, 2005
Embarrassment of the dayI went to my sec2 student's house for tuition today.While she was figuring out her motion geometry,I went to the toilet.While i was peeing,the door fell down.Did u read what I just wrote?
YES!THE FREAKING DOOR FELL DOWN!!
I wonder how,I wonder why(looks up to heaven with sad doleful eyes)
WHY am i always so suay and malu-ating???
But there's always a silver lining.Heng her family was out,we were the only ones in the house.(Imagine if her dad was in the kitchen when the door fell)Heng my mum gives me nimble limbs.I was able to pull up my jeans asap before my tutee came running,wondering what the hell I did to her toilet.If anyone was to time my reaction speed,I reckon it was like 2 seconds.If not for this silver lining,I think i need to use a cloth to cover my face whenever I go her house next time.
Ya i am ok now after this malu inccident.I am just a little more apprehensive about toilet security now.
Joy of the Day
YAY!! I finally got my semester check from Changi General Hospital.I am going down to confirm my placing in UniSA next monday.I shall use my cheque to slap tht Jon's face(the counsellor who looked down on me)Anyone interested in going with me?Keke..
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A few days ago,someone gave me some advice that spurned deep thought in me.She's this person who broke up with her first boyfriend around 2 yrs ago and was only recently attached.Much to my surprise,she told me that she was actually on the point of breaking up with her current boyfriend.When i probed further,she said that it was because her boyfriend thought she was too independent and thus he did not like it.So her advice to me is this..
''Do not stay single for too long,because you will get used to being alone and enjoy being alone.That is harmful for a relationship''
I am actually appalled that she gave this type of advice.She's a pro singlehood modern lady.This means that she really like this boyfriend of hers.Love for a person can actually lead to her giving such lousy advice to me.I mean it is really lousy advice.If that guy do not value your independency,which is a strength of yours,clearly,apparently and obviously there are some problems in compatibility right??
I hate guys who do not like independency in girls.Does it mean that only when the girl comes to the point when she cannot live without you(like handbag also need to help her carry),you will then think that she value you as her significant other?If not,you think you are insignicant to her?This is the 21st century ok!!Guys like this with ultra big sized ego should go back to the days where matah wear shorts la!
Independency not good meh?How I wished I had the the independency in me when I was going through some difficult times..
However, girls who do not have independency,fear not! Independency can be nutured.Dependency is a habit,not a characteristic.Being alone is not equals to being lonely!I can proudly say that I am now a independent person.
You know you are independent when
1) You can spend a whole day by yourself at home,without feeling left out,feeling very fufilled.
2) You can comfortably eat alone in a very busy food court
3) You can shop alone comfortably,without feeling lonely in a big crowd
4) You know how to do difficult things now without help(like getting a bank draft by yourself)
5) You can cry on your own,after which u bravely dry your tears and do self encouragement
6) You can cheer yourself up easily
7) You can find things to entertain yourself when you are bored(for eg reading)
8) You can live without recieving a single sms for the whole day
9) You do not need reassurance from another person on how you look
10) Your happiness is solely dependent on things that revolve around you,not the things that revolve around other people
Of course there are more.Add more to my list ok?Give me more ideas!We are all independent women!!!
Independent women not good meh?Show you 10 reasons why we rock!!
1) We can earn as much dough as you do,so you can indulge in your worldly possessions
2) We can help handle the household as efficiently as possible.
3) We will know when to back away when you are busy.
4) We will know how to go dutch on dates(so u dun need to be constantly broke)
5) We can give you strong independent ideas when you are in a dilemma
6) We will not call you in the middle of the night asking you to come help us catch lizard
7) We can help you beat thieves up.
8) We do not need you to give hourly sms asking where we are,how are we.Vice versa.
9) We do not need you to think of lame jokes to entertain us
10) We can send you home
Ok this is sounding a little too feminist.There's alot of digression I know.But this is my main point afterall..
I hereby somba I shall not mistreat myself by sticking with a guy that comprises with my independency!Give me independency or give me death!!
flabbyarms thought hard on 10:23 PM.
